I cannot stress strongly enough how important your default photo is to attracting women online. No doubt that all facets of how you set up your entire profile and how you initiate contact with women is of utmost importance. And all facets, although created individually, all work together to make dating web site attraction work for you. But let’s be clear, your default photo is without question at the top of the list.
Being able to successfully attract women online does not require that you have a body builder’s physique. It does not require you to have a high profile career. Nor is it determined by having a magnetic personality or by being over 6 feet tall.
You can attract women on dating web sites without changing the man you already are and it all begins with your default photo. You can only choose one default photo so make it count!
One important note I’d like to make on the use of photos and how you present yourself to women online – post current pictures. It’s very important to present yourself accurately.
If you post older or otherwise inaccurate photos of yourself it is very unfair to the women you will be trying to connect with. And, it is also pretty unfair to yourself.
Isn’t the purpose of online dating sites to actually meet women face to face? To meet her out for a cup of coffee, a beer or even a nice dinner? I mean connecting with the opposite sex online is convenient but so what about convenience unless you actually arrange a real date. And why would you want to go out with a woman and have her meet somebody completely different than who she saw on the dating site?
I’ve heard tons of horror stories from woman who were duped into going out on dates as the result of fraudulent profiles. And obviously, starting off a date this way will only lead to disappointment and failure. A woman will always see that having posted inaccurate pictures of yourself as compared to what you look like today as tantamount to lying. And…women DO NOT like liars.
Be proud of who you are and present yourself accurately. The best you is the honest you. That is who a woman wants to meet – she is not interested in anything less.
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